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The 3 Biggest Writing Problems for INFJ Writers

All writers have problems with writing at one time or another, but writers who are also of the INFJ personality type tend to have a very specific set of problems when it comes to writing. INFJ writers don’t always link these problems to their personality type, but each one of them is rooted in their temperament as intuitive, emotionally-centered introverts. Once the connection is made, that’s when the INFJ writer can begin to overcome them.

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2 Big Ways INFJs and INFPs Give Their Power Away

If you’re a Highly Sensitive intuitive person, you are probably very familiar with that feeling of being invisible, feeling unseen, unheard, and generally disconnected from most people around you.

You’re also probably familiar with feeling like you don’t often get what you want in life, and you may have blamed this on being not competitive enough, not aggressive enough, or not extroverted enough to go after what you really want.

The thing most intuitive introverts miss though, is that it’s not about being aggressive. It’s about the subtle signals we put out to other people (especially when we first meet them) that lead us into giving our power away to others on a constant basis. Most of these signals are unconscious, and we’re totally unaware that we use them as our default mode, so the same patterns keep happening with people. And we keep feeling unseen, unheard, and invisible, again and again, and again.

In the video below, I talk about the 2 big ways that INFJ and INFP people tend to give our power away to others from the very first interaction we have with them:

I’m launching a new video course in just a few days called AWAKEN, and it’s designed specifically for empaths and intuitives who are ready to upgrade their reality and move into a new life of joy, abundance, and deep, nourishing happiness.

Update: the AWAKEN Video course is now available! You can find details and purchase it here:

AWAKEN Video Course

Highly Sensitive and Stressed? This Is the Leading Cause of Burnout for INFJ and INFP Personalities

Over the past ten years, I’ve worked with hundreds of Highly Sensitive empaths who routinely hit the burnout wall. The people who come to me are tired, drained, stressed, and overall unhappy. They feel totally alone.

This is because so many INFJ and INFP personality types are constantly drained by their relationships, as well as interaction with the world around them. Even if you love your friends and family, you still can’t escape the fact that you tend to give more than you receive in most relationships, and this leads so many of us into depression and constant anxiety.

Not only have I been there myself, but because I’ve worked with so many INFJ and INFP people over so many years, I know the patterns. I know what works, and what doesn’t work, when you’re trying to shift your life from unhappiness and stress to a better place of joy and fulfillment.

The key thing that so many people miss is that it’s not about changing yourself or your personality, it’s about changing your energy. I talk more about this in the video below:

I’m launching a new video course next week called AWAKEN and it’s for all empaths and introverted intuitive people who are struggling with self-esteem and self-worth, feeling like an alien in an overly aggressive world, and who want to lead a happier, more fulfilled life.

Update: the AWAKEN Video course is now available! You can find details and purchase it here:

AWAKEN Video Course