I’m Teaching with SARK and Jacob Nordby This Weekend! Don’t Miss Out!

The Gathering of the Creatives – Paint, Poetry, & Inspiration! is coming up soon and I want to make sure you don’t miss it.

It’s an online weekend retreat and it’s an awesome opportunity to meet like-minded people who will help you connect deeply with your own creativity.


Led by SARK, Jacob Nordby, Flora Bowley, Q Gibson, me, and other creative teachers, this weekend event is all about expressing ourselves through painting, writing, and creative inspiration.

We’ll be diving into workshops on topics like:

Transforming critical inner dialogue into positive power for your life
Facing the 3 enemies of creativity
Releasing fear and embracing freedom
Meditation, freewriting, and setting intentions
Brave intuitive painting


Intuitive writing, taught by me. Continue Reading

FREE Online Summit for Writers! (Scene Structure, Genre Fiction, Short Stories and More…)

Are you having trouble starting (or finishing) your book?

Maybe you’re unsure whether or not your idea is good enough? Or maybe you feel overwhelmed with organizing it all, or keeping your characters, plotlines and settings clear in your head?

If this sounds like you, then you need to check out the Be a Bestseller – Structure Your Story for Success masterclass series.

My friend, Emma Dhesi, has brought together 20+ writers, creatives, and influencers for this complimentary training series on ways to structure your stories, develop plot twists AND manage all your projects.

It’s totally free, but you have to sign up to get access. Continue Reading

Why INFJs and INFPs Fall in Love So Fast (and So Hard) with Other People

Being an INFJ or an INFP can be difficult anyway, but falling in love as an INFJ or an INFP can be downright torturous. The falling in love experience is NOT the same for INFJs and INFPs as it is for most of the rest of the population, and there is very little information out there on this subject, so most INFJs and INFPs end up feeling like they’re weird or crazy when it happens to them.

When an INFJ or INFP personality type falls in love, we fall in love fast, and so hard that it feels like we can barely breathe when we’re around the person, or even think about the person. We feel drawn to the other person like they are a giant human-sized magnet sucking us into their orbit. We think about them night and day, and our thoughts turn into obsessive loops where we meticulously analyze every single interaction we’ve had with them. We also need to know everything we can about the person, and that means EVERYTHING. Our curiosity and investigation skills know no bounds.

Now, some of these intense feelings and behaviors can be attributed to the fact that most INFJs and INFPs have trust issues, that’s no secret. So the more we feel we know about the person we’re in love with, the less likely we feel that we will be unpleasantly surprised by some hidden facet of their character down the road. But that’s not all of it. There’s another, deeper reason that INFJs and INFPs experience this deep, instant, and usually unexplainable, attraction to someone else. Continue Reading

The 3 Big Things You Should Know Before You Start Writing a Self-Help Book

Six years ago, I was a writer who hadn’t published anything with an idea that was nagging at me to turn it into a book. I was also a struggling writing coach, trying to fit coaching in between my day job, my long commute, and an infant son. I was tired, distracted, stressed, and overwhelmed.

But I also felt the calling to follow this idea that wouldn’t leave me alone.

I wanted to write a self-help book.

I wanted to write a self-help book for a lot of reasons, not the least important of which was the fact that self-help books had helped me through some of the darkest times in my life. And even though I had made it through those dark times into greener pastures, I still read a lot of self-help books. I genuinely enjoyed the genre and I thought it would be fun to try my hand at it.

But I had no idea what I was doing.

And so, I ran into a lot of roadblocks along the way.

Out of everything I wished I’d known before I started writing a self-help book, there are 3 big things that would have made all the difference for me. I’m sharing them here in the hopes that they’ll help you and you won’t get stuck at an impasse for as long as I did at times. Continue Reading

5 Best Pieces of Advice for Aspiring Writers

I get emails and messages from aspiring writers all the time asking me for the one thing they should know, or the one thing they should do, in order to be a successful writer. Well, there’s never just “one thing,” but I’ve taken all my very best writing advice and distilled it down into five things that will help any aspiring writer along on their way to success.

Stop Trying to Control Everything

This is a big one. Writers are anxious people and we like control. It makes us feel safe and like we can anticipate the problems lying in wait for us and come up with solutions for them before they’ve even come to pass. But no matter how much we plan things out in our head, we can’t predict the future, and we definitely can’t predict the exact details of how our creative work will turn out once it’s out of our heads and down on the page.

The best thing you can do for yourself is let go. Don’t be so attached to your outline, the order in which you write your story, how you think your characters should act, and whether or not you’re hitting every point of the Hero’s Journey. Those things are fun to play around with and they can be helpful, but don’t try to use them as control mechanisms to the point where you strangle your story. Continue Reading