If you’re an INFJ who’s been searching around on the internet for more information on your personality type, you’ve probably noticed that there are a ton of other INFJs out there who profess to feeling lonely, out of place, and on a different wavelength than most of the population. It’s really cool that there are so many online spaces in existence now where INFJs can meet others just like themselves and talk about it.
But let’s not forget that there are a few other personality types out there that are incredibly complementary to the way INFJs work.
The ENFJ writer, for one, is an excellent creative match for the INFJ writer.
Let’s Talk About It
Like the INFJ, the ENFJ personality is particularly adept at listening and offering constructive, nurturing support. ENFJs get excited about interesting people and ideas and their excitement is contagious. They also share extroverted feeling as one of their top two functions with INFJs so they know exactly what it’s like to pick up on the emotions of others.
Because the ENFJ has the skills of an emotional ninja they can be successful like no one else at coaxing the secretive INFJ into peeling back a few of our layers. Specifically, if anyone can get us to talk about our writing and verbalize our ideas out loud, it’s the ENFJ. And that verbalization is an amazing boost to our creativity because it’s something we’re not able to do with everyone.
Really Getting It
That thing about listening goes both ways. INFJs are so good at listening that a lot of people pour out their life stories to us before they even know they’re doing it. The extroverted feeling function comes back into play here, helping INFJs respond to whoever is doing the talking with genuine warmth and empathy. We really feel what you’re going through, and it shows.
ENJFs also navigate their world through emotion, and consequently, they are usually very passionate individuals. When an ENFJ writer is working on a book she cares deeply about her characters and their stories. Because the INFJ is able to fully fathom this level of caring and respond in the same emotional language, ENFJs can be empowered to be their true creative selves in front of someone they know really “gets it”.
It’s All about People
INFJs are introverts, yes. If we’re around too many people for too long our batteries get depleted, yes. But that doesn’t change the fact that our main fascination in life is people. We can’t get enough information about them. We want to know how so many of them tick; why they do the things they do and make the choices they make.
ENFJs share this love of people with the INFJ. But because of their extroverted nature they are much more likely to strike up conversations with strangers and actually go to that party the INFJ only thinks about attending. The ENFJ makes a fantastic partner-in-crime for the INFJ writer as they have the magical ability to help the INFJ shift from their inner world of imagination to the outer world of real people with real stories.
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