When I was a kid I wanted nothing more than to live in the big city. I grew up in a small town in rural Michigan, in a farmhouse, literally surrounded by cows and cornfields. So when I fantasized about the future I imagined bright lights and millions of people. New York City was my first choice, followed closely by somewhere awesome in California.
Well, I did end up moving away. First to Ann Arbor when I was 17, and then onto Seattle when I was 21. I ended up in San Francisco by the time I was 25. Each of these places was difficult to adapt to and navigate. Housing was expensive, parking was sometimes impossible, and I had to be aware and vigilant in a way I never had to in my small town amongst the cornfields.
I’ve been getting requests for a post specifically on INTJ writers for a while now. The only problem was that I didn’t feel at all qualified to speak on behalf of all the INTJ writers out there (as I’m such a solid feeling type myself). So I recruited my writer friend Phillip McCollum, who is an awesome blogger as well as an INTJ, to help me out on this one.
I’ve worked with a lot of writers over the past eight years and I can honestly say that there really is one thing that separates the writers who are going to make it from the writers who are not. I know, I know—there are many different variables at play. Believing in yourself, joining a supportive community, finding your audience. I’m not disputing that those factors influence a writer’s success. But the thing I’m talking about is way more basic than anything else.
Today’s guest post comes from Dario Ciriello, author of Drown the Cat: the Rebel Author’s Guide to Writing Beyond the Rules. Dario is a professional author, editor, and writing coach, as well as the founder and owner of Panverse Publishing. For more on Dario’s work and more information about Drown the Cat you can visit his website, check out Panverse Publishing on Facebook, or follow him on Twitter.
One of the harder things for writers today is seeing past the avalanche of writing rules and dogma raining down on them from every corner of the blogosphere, the internet, and the publishing industry, to discover their own personal voice and story.