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July 2018

Why the Creative Life Can Be So Hard for INFJs and INFPs

In all my years of coaching, I’ve run into a definite pattern with INFJ and INFP artists and writers. It seems that most of us don’t decide to pursue our true calling until later in life. Usually, it’s after 40. Now, this doesn’t mean that we don’t feel the stirrings of inspiration or the pull to create long before then, but it’s not usually until we’re entering the latter half of life that we make the conscious decision to take the plunge and just do it, whatever “it” may be.

Why does it take us so long? Is it true that most INFJ and INFP personality types are just late bloomers and need more time than the rest of the population to figure out what they really want to do in life? Continue Reading

Yay! I Finished My Book! So Why Do I Feel So Depressed?

Yesterday I typed those two little words every writer dreams of when we’re in the middle of a WIP…The End. I finally finished the novel I’ve been feverishly working on for the past seven months. For me, seven months is a record-breaking length of time to write a novel, but with this one, I just couldn’t help it. It was one of those novels that forced me to drop everything and write it, whether I wanted to or not.

You would think I would feel happy. You would think I would be out celebrating. But, I feel the exact opposite. Now that the book is out of me (the sloppy first draft anyway) and I know the entire story of my characters, I kind of feel like my heart has been ripped out of my chest. Continue Reading

Readers Connect Most Strongly with Writers Who Dare to Be Vulnerable.

Usually when we think about “book marketing” we think of glitzy ad campaigns or nuking everyone on social media with relentless messages to “buy my book!” This is a huge turn-off for most writers. We’ve spent months, possibly years, working on a story that is so personally meaningful to us that it’s even hard to describe it succinctly to other people without getting tangled up in words and emotion.

And now we’re supposed to push it onto total strangers using a catchy (or cheesy) hook?

Um, no thanks. Continue Reading

99-cent Summer Book Sale! Get All 3 of My Books on Kindle for Only 99 Cents Each!

The INFJ Writer – NOW 99 CENTS
A writing guide made especially for INFJ and INFP personality types, The INFJ Writer uses the insights I gained coaching writers—as well as my own personal story as an introvert and Highly Sensitive Person—to show how the experience of the intuitive writer is radically different from the norm.

Firefly Magic: Heart Powered Marketing for Highly Sensitive Writers – NOW 99 CENTS
One of the biggest obstacles that holds writers back is a strong resistance to marketing and sales work. Highly Sensitive People, many of which are INFJ or INFP personality types, are especially prone to this resistance. Firefly Magic helps Highly Sensitive Writers shift their mindset and open up to new ways to promote their work.

Between the Shadow and Lo – NOW 99 CENTS
In the The INFJ Writer  I discussed my years as a raging alcoholic when I was in my early 20s. During that time I lived through my shadow side, the dark and dysfunctional extrovert who only came out when I was drinking. Between the Shadow and Lo is the novel based on those experiences. It’s raw, it’s gritty, and it’s a book that exposes a side of myself that I’m not proud of, but that exists nevertheless.

The sale ends Saturday, July 7, so get them all for 99 cents while you still can.

Happy summer reading!